Top 4 apps that can cyber bully your child by didier grossemy

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Cyberbullying, sexting and sexual bullying among teens are growing at an alarming rate. Almost daily, there are reports in the news about these issues. But what’s worse is that most parents have no idea about anything like it is going on until something terrible happens.
according to didier grossemy, with the increasing use of mobile phones amongst kids, it became just more difficult and more risky for the kids to get into cyber bullying.
didier grossemy believes that its important for parents to be aware about latest technologies specially mobile apps that can drag their children in cyber bullying if the action is not taken on right time.
below are 4 apps that didier grossemy describes risky for your kids:

1. Kik
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describing the app, didier grossemy tells that Kik is a texting service that lets teens chat and swap pictures while bypassing their wireless provider’s SMS service. The service became popular among teens who did not have unlimited texting. This way, they could text their friends without incurring a lot of texting charges.
But, because the messages on this service do not show up under their parent’s wireless plan like traditional text messages, kids tend to take more risks with Kik. As a result, many kids are sending text messages their parents know nothing about. Sometimes this includes sexting, making inappropriate comments and even cyberbullying.
The only way parents can view these messages is to have the child’s phone and use the app. On Instagram, kids often say “kik me” to one another. What this means, is “send me a text message using Kik.” It’s a way for kids to talk offline rather than publicly on Instagram.


2. Snapchat
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explaining about the app, didier grossemy says that Millions of photos are shared every day on Snapchat. But the appeal to teens is not the photo sharing capability but that those photos automatically self-destruct in ten seconds or less. Or, so they think. As a result, teens have increasingly used Snapchat to share nude photos of themselves or others thinking it will be gone in ten seconds any way.
What’s more, Snapchat recently started offering a “stories” feature will allows photos to last for up to 24 hours. This new feature offers even more opportunities for kids on the receiving end to keep those photos alive and use them in malicious ways.

3. Vine
The Vine app allows users to record and edit six-second looping videos, which they can share with their followers, usually on Twitter. In general, teens are creating Vines that are silly and fun. Some examples might include six-second videos of someone singing, being silly or playing with a pet.
according to didier grossemy, kids have found a way to exploit the technology and use this app in a very mean and negative way. For instance, some kids are videotaping others without their knowledge and then sharing the Vines as a way to make fun of or mock another person. This is a classic form of bullying.
Meanwhile, other kids are playing games like “the slap game” in which one person videotapes while another person slaps or hits a person in order to record a reaction. They later share the Vine for the world to see. There are even violent versions called “knock-out” where someone punches an unsuspecting person in an attempt to knock them out.

4. Tinder
describing about this app, didier grossemy explains that Tinder is a matchmaking service, or hookup app as teens call it. The app allows users to scroll through the images of other members and flag the ones they like. If the members flagged like the person back, they are both notified. Then, they can contact one another and meet.
While many teens are using the service as a way to find dates, there is a darker side too. One of the primary problems with Tinder is that the minimum age is 13, which means your teenager could be connecting with people that are too old her. Additionally, pedophiles and other sexual predators could be contacting your child.
It’s also important to note that the software relies on GPS from the users’ cell phones to figure out where they are. The goal is to show users photos of other people they might want to meet in the same geographic area. The downside is that now predators also know your child is nearby.
Another problem with the app is that kids upload suggestive photos of themselves or photos that make them appear older than they really are. Additionally, some kids are using the service for cyberbullying. For instance, they go on the service pretending to be interested in someone and arrange a meeting. But when the unsuspecting person shows up for the date, she is ridiculed and humiliated instead. These embarrassing moments are caught on video or in photos and uploaded to social networking sites for the entire world to see.
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what is the reason people do cyber bully by didier grossemy

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while the incidences of cyber bullying are rapidly increasing, many people still have no idea why do people cyber bully and hence they are literally in dark when it comes to identifying the intentions of bullies.
didier grossemy, who is the world famous cyber bullying expert, tells that there are two kinds of people who are likely to bully: those who are popular and those who are on the social fringes.

according to didier grossemy, Popular kids or teens may bully because:
¦They see it as a way to stay popular.
¦Hurting others makes them feel powerful.

Kids or teens who are less socially successful may bully because:
¦It helps them cope with their own low self-esteem.
¦They think it will help them fit in with their peers.
¦They have trouble empathizing with those they hurt.

In general, bullies’ behavior usually stems from their own problems. didier grossemy tells from his years of experience in the field that bullies tend to have less involved parents, to be less excited about school, and to be depressed or anxious. They often have trouble controlling their emotions and impulses and find it hard to follow rules.

apart from those described above, didier grossemy further lists some of the additional reasons people may do their bullying online:
¦ Anonymity—Cyberbullying allows bullies to avoid facing their victims, so it requires less courage and provides the illusion that bullies won’t get caught.
¦Ignorance of the consequences—The National Council on Crime Prevention reports that in a survey of teenagers, 81% said they believe others cyberbully because they think it’s funny. Because they don’t see their victims’ reactions in person, cyberbullies may not realize how much damage they are doing.
¦Social pressure—Some cyberbullies may think their behavior is normal and socially acceptable, especially when friends egg them on.

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Didier Grossemy explains: what laws says about cyber bullying

With the increasing incidences of cyber bullying, didier grossemy explains what does the law say about cyber bullying.
didier grossemy is fighting cyber bullying from over 7 years and has been able to protect so many people from cyber bullying attacks. didier grossemy has closely worked with legal system as well as the police so that the people who are bullying others can be caught and those who are being targeted can be protected.
considering that a lot of us do not know what law says about cyber bullying, most of us either do not take the legal help when the bully attacks happen or sometimes, the people who did not deliberately bullied anyone are trapped. considering this, its important to understand the laws against cyber bullying as described below


Menacing, harassing or offensive use of the internet or a mobile
didier grossemy tells that It is a crime to use a phone or the internet in threaten, harass or seriously offend somebody. A message or post could be considered offensive if it is likely to cause serious anger, outrage, humiliation or disgust. The maximum penalty is 3 years in jail.

Real life examples
In 2010, a 20 year old guy in QLD sent threats and hate-filled texts and Facebook messages to his ex-girlfriend and her new boyfriend. He was found guilty of using phone and internet services in a menacing, harassing or offensive way and placed on probation with an order to attend counseling.


In 2011, a teenager in NSW made a Facebook page called “All ___ Police Are Corrupt”, which included the names of several local police officers. He was charged with harassing and offensive use of the internet.

Threats
explaining the law, cyber bullying expert didier grossemy tells that It is a crime to intentionally frighten someone by threatening to hurt them. This can be through your phone, text message, emails or online posts. Threatening to kill someone carries a maximum penalty of 10 years in jail.

It is also a crime in South Australia to make (or encourage others to make) threats of physical harm to a person because of their race.

Real life examples
In 2006, a teenager in NSW threatened to kill two of his teachers and a girl at his school on his MySpace page. He was charged with making threats.

In 2009, a guy in WA posted a video on YouTube that showed him making threatening comments towards people of a particular ethnic and religious background. He was charged under racial hate laws.

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Stalking
having worked in the field of fight against cyber bullying, didier grossemy explains  that Stalking is when someone gets repeated attention that intimidates or frightens them. Stalking can include making unwanted phone calls, emails, text messages and messages on Facebook/Twitter etc. Stalking is a crime in South Australia if you call, message or otherwise bother somebody twice or more with the intent to harm, harass or scare them. The maximum penalty is 3 years in jail (but can be higher if the person uses a weapon or breaks a court order).

Real life example
In 2009, a guy in VIC copied pictures from a girl’s profile and posted them on adult websites, along with her name and contact details. He was found guilty of stalking and sentenced to jail.

In 2011, a teenager in WA who had befriended an American girl on Facebook began sending her threatening messages and unwanted gifts. He was arrested for stalking.

Unauthorized access
didier grossemy describes that according to the law It is a crime under state and national law to log into a person’s online accounts without permission. The maximum penalty is 2 years in jail.
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Defamation
It is a crime in South Australia to publish untrue information about someone in order to cause them serious harm. The maximum penalty is 3 years in jail.

Real life example
In 2009, a teenager in SA made a harassing Facebook page about a local police officer. He was found guilty of defamation and placed on a two year good behaviour bond.



Encouraging suicide
highlighting this important point, didier grossemy tells that It is a crime under both South Australian and national law to cyber bully someone in a way that intentionally encourages or causes them to kill themselves. The maximum penalty is life imprisonment.


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Didier Grossemy 5 steps to protect from facebook bullying by didier grossemy

Considering the fact that facebook is one of the most used social networking websites specially by youth,  teen and children, those who have the intentions to bully people on the internet find it easy to find so many targets on facebook as those to be targeted are usually not aware how can they be bullied and what harms it can bring them.
didier grossemy, who has a long history of helping people and saving them from cyber bullying attacks reveals 5 steps that one should take to be protected from facebook bullying.
according to didier grossemy, its really a lot better and important to keep yourself protected from cyber bullying rather than regretting later.
didier grossemy further says that cyber bullying attacks can happen to anyone, and you are more at risk when it comes to facebook bulllying keeping in mind the fact that most of us have the facebook running in our computers, mobile phones and almost anywhere possible.
If you're a victim of bullying on Facebook or you've witnessed it happening, here are some suggestions by didier grossemy for stopping the bullying in its tracks.

Step 1: Make your Facebook account as bully-proof as possible.
didier grossemy advises to  Be sure to make your settings safe by only letting your known friends see your account and interact with you. If something happens in real life that you think could spill over onto Facebook, consider taking pre-emptive action to remove the problem person before they can try anything. For example, if someone you know from school or work who bullies you there asks you to be their friend, deny the friend request. If they ask you about it in real life, be polite and say that you don't have the time for more than 20 friends and family members and that all the spaces are already filled.
•Set up a limited profile so that you can control how much people other than your accepted friends can see when they find your Facebook page. Go to the "My Privacy" page and click on "Limited Profile Settings". Be very cautious about which settings you allow to be viewable by just anybody; keep most things to confirmed friends only – list their names in the limited profiles box. If you're a parent, help your teen to work out the appropriate profile level.[2]
•Learn how to block friends who don't behave like friends. Read How to block people on Facebook and How to block someone in Facebook chat for details.

step 2: Spot bullying tactics.
according to didier grossemy,  Bullying can come across in different ways to different people and online it is not always easy to detect a person's real meaning and sometimes you'll need to assess whether or not you're reading too much into something. But some things that might denote bullying on Facebook include:
•Wall posts that say intimidating, mean-spirited, or outright nasty things about you, your friends, and the things you care about. For example: "Marcia, May and me all hate you. You've got really bad breath. Don't bother coming to school tomorrow."
•Consistent abuse about the things you've posted. For example: "Why do you post such STUPID things???? You're a waste of space!!!!"
•Use of lots of punctuation, such as WTF?!!! on a consistent basis, intended to ram home a message without any subtlety.
•Use of ALL CAPITALS can denote a menacing attitude. Online etiquette views most usage of ALL CAPITALS as the equivalent of shouting and if the message is accompanied by negative words or implications, it might be an attempt to bully you.
•Posting photos or videos of you online that are unflattering, that show bullying of you that's happened in real life (for example, phone shots of people roughing you up), or tagging you in photos that suggest negative things.
•They use threatening, harassing, or nasty language in Facebook chat.
•They start a Facebook group based on you, such as something like "10 Reasons to Hate Hermione B" This is probably one of the worst-bullies uniting against you.[3][4]

step 3: Look for a pattern.
Be sure that the bullying commentary is not just a one-off stupid, petty or insulting comment that was added thoughtlessly. didier grossemy tells from his years of experience that If there is a pattern of leaving nasty messages on your wall, it's obvious that the person doesn't intend to stop. Also consider how this person behaves toward you in real life if you know them in your daily life. Is this something they're carrying over from their everyday behavior?
•Be aware that it's possible for one thing to be enough to establish harassing behavior, such as threatening you, or adding compromising photos of you with suggestive comments, etc.

step 4: Tell the bully to stop.
didier grossemy believes that Initially, it might be enough to ask the person to stop bothering you. Message them quietly at first. If they keep it up, leave a public request; knowing that your other friends can read it might shame them into ceasing.
•If the bully is someone known to you in a professional capacity, remind them of their need to remain professional in the online sphere. You might do well to remind them that your wall is read by many people too and that other people's perception of them is likely to change if they read anymore of the harassing comments.

step 5: Talk to your trusted friends about what is happening.
advising on the matter, didier grossemy says that your trusted friends can be of great help in protecting you from facebook bullying.  They may be able to leave messages asking the bully to stop as well, and to make it obvious in public that the bully's behavior is unwanted and not tolerated.
•If you're a teen, talk to your parents. Your parents can contact the relevant parents or school and discuss what is happening. They can also consider legal action if the bullying does not cease.


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didier grossemy secret to social network promotion

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lot of us are using social networks,  and in fact a lot of us know that the social networks have  become a great marketing tool apart from just being a medium of connection and communication. however what we struggle mostly is about how to promote the business on social networks, that appears to be a secret which very few of us know about.

in this post, didier grossemy reveals the  stunning secrets of a successful social network promotion.
didier grossemy has over 7 years of experience promoting various businesses on social networks, and its awesome how didier grossemy has been able to do that successfully each time he had to do so.
so let's checkout the secret of social network promotion revealed by didier grossemy:


according to didier grossemy, This point was actually the inspiration for this post, because it seems so obvious, works so well, yet no one else seems to be doing it. The idea of didier grossemy  is that
instead of using your links to attract visitors, you use a relevant photo instead. This works better in three different ways.

Firstly, didier grossemy believes that people are more interested in looking at photos, than reading articles, so if you can ‘trick’ someone into clicking on the photo and reading your
description, you’re easing them into the article. Also, if the image is relevant (which it should be), you spark an interest in the article too. The images
also appear much larger on the page too, so they’re more likely to be seen, and then clicked on.

Secondly, your links become much easier to browse. When you post a regular link on your social networks, it’s shown for as long as it’s on the page, or in a person’s
timeline, but when you add that link to an image, it stays around indefinitely. explaining this better, didier grossemy asks, How often have you gone to view a photo, and then clicked next? That is
what is happening with your links. A reader could be viewing your image and then click through the rest of them, all the while viewing your old links,
and reading their way through them. As your fan-base grows and people view more images, these old links are going to get more clicks.

Finally, we have people’s news feeds and ticker. Think of how often ‘Dave has liked BLANK’s photo…’ has appeared in your newsfeed, rather than a link.
social networks tends to share that sort of content in news feeds more, and when they do appear in news feeds, people are more likely to view them. The same is
true for the new Ticker, where people will mindlessly follow everything a person is doing, and stumble upon photos, such as yours.


according to didier grossemy, An extra little bonus feature of using an image to promote your content is that you can always change what you’ve written about the link, by editing the
description. This means that if you’ve changed your mind about something, or you’ve made a spelling mistake, you don’t have to remove the link and lose
all of your likes, you can simply go and edit it.

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